✅ Answer: Look at these narrations:

1 عَنْ طَلْحَةَ بْنِ زَیْدٍ عَنْ أَبِی عَبْداللَّهِ قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ مَنْ أَمْکَنَ مِنْ نَفْسِهِ طَائِعاً یُلْعَبُ بِهِ أَلْقَی اللَّهُ عَلَیْهِ شَهْوَةَ النِّسَاءِ.

1 From Talhah ibn Zayd from Abi Abdillah who said: The Messenger of Allah said: 'Whoever willingly offers himself to be played with, Allah will cast upon him the lust of women.'

2 عَنْ أَبِی بَکْرٍ الْحَضْرَمِیِّ عَنْ أَبِی عَبْدِ اللَّهِ فِی حَدِیثٍ قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ وَ إِنَّ الرَّجُلَ لَیُؤْتَی فِی حَقَبِهِ فَیَحْبِسُهُ اللَّهُ عَلَی جِسْرِ جَهَنَّمَ حَتَّی یَفْرُغَ اللَّهُ مِنْ حِسَابِ الْخَلَائِقِ ثُمَّ یُؤْمَرُ بِهِ إِلَی جَهَنَّمَ فَیُعَذَّبُ بِطَبَقَاتِهَا طَبَقَةً طَبَقَةً حَتَّی یُرَدَّ إِلَی أَسْفَلِهَا وَ لَا یَخْرُجُ مِنْهَا.

📚 Al-Kafi, Vol. 5, p. 549

3 عَنِ الْحُسَیْنِ بْنِ عُلْوَانَ عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ خَالِدٍ عَنْ زَیْدِ بْنِ عَلِیٍّ عَنْ آبَائِهِ عَنْ عَلِیٍّ أَنَّهُ رَأَی رَجُلًا بِهِ تَأْنِیثٌ فِی مَسْجِدِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ فَقَالَ لَهُ اخْرُجْ مِنْ مَسْجِدِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ یَا مَنْ لَعَنَهُ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ثُمَّ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ یَقُولُ لَعَنَ اللَّهُ الْمُتَشَبِّهِینَ مِنَ الرِّجَالِ بِالنِّسَاءِ وَ الْمُتَشَبِّهَاتِ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ بِالرِّجَالِ.

2 From Abi Bakr al-Hadrami from Abi Abdillah in a hadith he said: The Messenger of Allah said: 'Indeed, a man who is penetrated in his anus will be detained by Allah on the bridge of Hell until Allah finishes the reckoning of all creatures, then he will be ordered to Hell and will be tormented in its layers, layer by layer, until he is sent to its lowest part and does not come out of it.'

4 عَنْ عَمَّارِ بْنِ مُوسَی عَنْ أَبِی عَبْدِ اللَّهِ فِی الرَّجُلِ یَنْکِحُ بَهِیمَةً أَوْ یَدْلُکُ فَقَالَ کُلُّ مَا أَنْزَلَ بِهِ الرَّجُلُ مَاءَهُ مِنْ [فی] هَذَا وَ شِبْهِهِ فَهُوَ زِنًا.

📚 Al-Kafi, Vol. 5, p. 544

5 عَنِ الصَّادِقِ علیه السلام قَالَ: إِنَّ اللَّهَ تَعَالَی جَعَلَ شَهْوَةَ الْمُؤْمِنِ فِی صُلْبِهِ وَ جَعَلَ شَهْوَةَ الْکَافِرِ فِی دُبُرِهِ

3 From al-Husayn ibn Ulwan from Amr ibn Khalid from Zayd ibn Ali from his forefathers from Ali that he saw a man with effeminate mannerisms in the mosque of the Messenger of Allah. So he said to him: 'Get out of the mosque of the Messenger of Allah, O you whom the Messenger of Allah has cursed!' Then he said: 'I heard the Messenger of Allah say: 'Allah has cursed the men who imitate women and the women who imitate men.''

6 قال امیرالمؤمنین : قَلَّ مَن تَشَبَّهَ بِقَومٍ إلّا أوشَکَ أن یکونَ مِنهُم.

📚 Ilal al-Shara'i, p. 602, hadith 63

7 عَنْ عُمَرَ بْنِ حَنْظَلَةَ عَنْ أَبِی عَبْدِ اللَّهِ فِی حَدِیثٍ قَالَ: وَ إِنَّمَا الْأُمُورُ ثَلَاثَةٌ أَمْرٌ بَیِّنٌ رُشْدُهُ فَیُتَّبَعُ وَ أَمْرٌ بَیِّنٌ غَیُّهُ فَیُجْتَنَبُ وَ أَمْرٌ مُشْکِلٌ یُرَدُّ عِلْمُهُ إِلَی اللَّهِ وَ إِلَی رَسُولِهِ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ حَلَالٌ بَیِّنٌ وَ حَرَامٌ بَیِّنٌ وَ شُبُهَاتٌ بَیْنَ ذَلِکَ فَمَنْ تَرَکَ الشُّبُهَاتِ نَجَا مِنَ الْمُحَرَّمَاتِ وَ مَنْ أَخَذَ بِالشُّبُهَاتِ ارْتَکَبَ الْمُحَرَّمَاتِ وَ هَلَکَ مِنْ حَیْثُ لَا یَعْلَمُ ثُمَّ قَالَ فِی آخِرِ الْحَدِیثِ فَإِنَّ الْوُقُوفَ عِنْدَ الشُّبُهَاتِ خَیْرٌ مِنَ الِاقْتِحَامِ فِی الْهَلَکَاتِ.

📚 Al-Kafi, Vol. 5, p. 540

4 From Ammar ibn Musa from Abi Abdillah regarding a man who has intercourse with a beast or masturbates. He said: 'Everything by which a man ejaculates his water from this and similar acts is fornication.'

✅ It is clear from these narrations and similar ones that the desire of the disbeliever is in his anus, and a man's pleasure and ejaculation in a way that is not clearly lawful, puts him into what is forbidden or doubtful.

✅ It is clear from these narrations and similar ones that the desire of the disbeliever is in his anus, and a man's pleasure and ejaculation in a way that is not clearly lawful, puts him into what is forbidden or doubtful.

✅ It is clear from these narrations and similar ones that the desire of the disbeliever is in his anus, and a man's pleasure and ejaculation in a way that is not clearly lawful, puts him into what is forbidden or doubtful.

✅ It is clear from these narrations and similar ones that the desire of the disbeliever is in his anus, and a man's pleasure and ejaculation in a way that is not clearly lawful, puts him into what is forbidden or doubtful.

✅ Therefore, it is clear that a wife massaging her husband's prostate with her finger or another object from the anus, which results in pleasure or ejaculation for the husband, is not appropriate and is not clearly lawful. Rather, it is one of the forbidden or doubtful acts, and perhaps, by looking at hadith 1, it may lead to the man having the desire of women, which is one of the greatest afflictions! And we seek refuge in Allah from it.

اللَّهُمَّ صَلِّ عَلَی مُحَمَّدٍ وَ آلِ مُحَمَّدٍ وَ عَجِّلْ لِوَلِیِّکَ الْفَرَجَ وَ الْعَافِیَةَ وَ النَّصْر