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Question 1741: What is the ruling on kissing a non-Mahram young girl without lustful intentions or improper motives?

✅ Answer: Consider the following narrations:

1⃣عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ یَحْیَی الْکَاهِلِیِّ عَنْ أَبِی أَحْمَدَ الْکَاهِلِیِّ وَ أَظُنُّنِی قَدْ حَضَرْتُهُ قَالَ: سَأَلْتُهُ عَنْ جَارِیَةٍ لَیْسَ بَیْنِی وَ بَیْنَهَا مَحْرَمٌ تَغْشَانِی فَأَحْمِلُهَا وَ أُقَبِّلُهَا فَقَالَ إِذَا أَتَی عَلَیْهَا سِتُّ سِنِینَ فَلَا تَضَعْهَا عَلَی حَجْرِکَ.

📚 Al-Kafi, vol. 5, p. 533

Ahmad Kahili said: 'I asked Imam Sadiq (peace be upon him) about kissing a non-Mahram young girl who visits me, and I carry her and kiss her. The Imam said: 'When she reaches the age of six, do not let her come close to you.'

2⃣عَنْ زُرَارَةَ عَنْ أَبِی عَبْدِ اللَّهِ قَالَ إِذَا بَلَغَتِ الْجَارِیَةُ الْحُرَّةُ سِتَّ سِنِینَ فَلَا یَنْبَغِی لَکَ أَنْ تُقَبِّلَهَا.

📚 Al-Kafi, vol. 5, p. 533

Imam Sadiq (peace be upon him) said: 'When a free young girl reaches the age of six, it is not appropriate for you to kiss her.'

3⃣عَنْ هَارُونَ بْنِ مُسْلِمٍ عَنْ بَعْضِ رِجَالِهِ عَنْ أَبِی الْحَسَنِ الرِّضَا أَنَّ بَعْضَ بَنِی هَاشِمٍ دَعَاهُ مَعَ جَمَاعَةٍ مِنْ أَهْلِهِ فَأَتَی بِصَبِیَّةٍ لَهُ فَأَدْنَاهَا أَهْلُ الْمَجْلِسِ جَمِیعاً إِلَیْهِمْ فَلَمَّا دَنَتْ مِنْهُ سَأَلَ عَنْ سِنِّهَا فَقِیلَ خَمْسٌ فَنَحَّاهَا عَنْهُ.

📚 Al-Kafi, vol. 5, p. 533

A person invited Imam Ridha (peace be upon him) along with a group of his family to a gathering, and he brought a young girl with him and everyone in the gathering got close to her. When she came close to Imam Ridha (peace be upon him), he asked about her age. It was said: 'She is five years old!' So, the Imam kept her away from himself.

4⃣عَنْ زَکَرِیَّا الْمُؤْمِنِ رَفَعَهُ أَنَّهُ قَالَ: قَالَ أَبُو عَبْدِ اللَّه إِذَا بَلَغَتِ الْجَارِیَةُ سِتَّ سِنِینَ فَلَا یُقَبِّلْهَا الْغُلَامُ وَ الْغُلَامُ لَا یُقَبِّلِ الْمَرْأَةَ إِذَا جَازَ سَبْعَ سِنِینَ.

📚 Al-Faqih, vol. 3, p. 437

Imam Sadiq (peace be upon him) said: 'When a young girl reaches the age of six (lunar years), a young boy should not kiss her, and a young boy, when he passes the age of seven (lunar years), should not kiss a woman.'

5⃣عَنْ عَلِیِّ بْنِ عُقْبَةَ عَنْ بَعْضِ أَصْحَابِنَا قَالَ: کَانَ أَبُو الْحَسَنِ الْمَاضِی عِنْدَ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ إِبْرَاهِیمَ وَالِی مَکَّةَ وَ هُوَ زَوْجُ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتِ أَبِی عَبْدِ اللَّهِ وَ کَانَتْ لِمُحَمَّدِ بْنِ إِبْرَاهِیمَ بِنْتٌ یُلْبِسُهَا الثِّیَابَ وَ تَجِیءُ إِلَی الرَّجُلِ فَیَأْخُذُهَا وَ یَضُمُّهَا إِلَیْهِ فَلَمَّا تَنَاهَتْ إِلَی أَبِی الْحَسَنِ أَمْسَکَهَا بِیَدَیْهِ مَمْدُودَتَیْنِ وَ قَالَ إِذَا أَتَتْ عَلَی الْجَارِیَةِ سِتُّ سِنِینَ لَمْ یَجُزْ أَنْ یُقَبِّلَهَا رَجُلٌ لَیْسَتْ هِیَ بِمَحْرَمٍ لَهُ وَ لَا یَضُمَّهَا إِلَیْهِ.

📚 Al-Tahzib, vol. 7, p. 461

One of the companions said: 'Imam Kazim (peace be upon him) was with the governor of Mecca, Muhammad ibn Ibrahim, and he was the husband of Fatimah, the daughter of Abu Abdullah. Muhammad ibn Ibrahim had a daughter whom he dressed, and she came to him. When she approached Imam Kazim (peace be upon him), he restrained her with both hands, detained her, and said: 'When a young girl reaches the age of six, it is not permissible for a non-Mahram man to kiss her, hold her in his arms, or cling to her.'

✅ In the above narrations, it is clear that when a non-Mahram man reaches the age of six, it is not permissible for him to kiss, carry, place in his lap, or hold a young girl close, even without lustful intentions or motives.

✅ Reaching the age of six mentioned in the narrations refers to completing five years and entering the sixth year, and the basis for calculating years in the narrations is the lunar year, unless it is expressly mentioned as a Roman year.

✅ Performing these actions out of lustful intentions or motives, even before reaching the age of six, has no permission in the narrations, and the permission to kiss and carry a young girl under six is only granted in the absence of lustful intentions and motives.

اللَّهُمَّ صَلِّ عَلَی مُحَمَّدٍ وَ آلِ مُحَمَّدٍ وَ عَجِّلْ لِوَلِیِّکَ الْفَرَجَ وَ الْعَافِیَةَ وَ النَّصْر

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